Advice For Short Parents On Raising Tall Children

Greetings, short parents! I am here to provide you with guidance on raising tall children. As a 6'7 woman raised by a single father, I assure you the challenges were anything but a walk in the park. Height can be a distinguishing characteristic that brings both advantages and obstacles. So, if you want to support and nurture your children's height, let's explore practical advice to help you on your parenting journey.

I often laugh when I think back to my father's reaction when he had to buy shoes and clothes several times a year. His eyes would nearly pop out of his head, "I just bought you those clothes." Parents, the inevitable of raising tall children is they are constantly growing. Consider buying two pairs of everything. Their current size and another size up, or at least consider purchasing clothing with extra room. Avoid buying clothes that fit precisely to their size. If you know your way around a needle or sewing machine, consider making your children's clothing to cut costs.

Proper posture is vital for optimizing height potential and maintaining overall spinal health. Educate your children on techniques to maintain correct posture while sitting, standing, and walking. Emphasize the importance of carrying themselves confidently, with their shoulders aligned, head held high, and back straight. Encouraging them to maintain proper posture will enhance their height and improve their overall appearance, well-being, and confidence.

Adequate sleep is essential for optimal growth in children, regardless of height.

However, when it comes to your tiny giant, ensure they have a comfortable place to rest and consider investing in a larger bed before their teenage years. At 7, I was 5'8, 6 foot by 10, 6'3 at 12, and 6'5 by the time I reached high school, and I can't count how many times my dad had to come to check on me at night every time he heard a loud bang from me falling off the bed as a young child. I laugh now, but those knots and bruises were not so funny then. If you can't afford a larger bed now, try putting two small beds together in an area of their room that prevents the mattresses from separating so easily.

Height can come with its fair share of challenges, especially during adolescence when self-esteem can fluctuate. Please encourage your children to embrace their size and help them build a positive body image. Teach them that height is just one aspect of their uniqueness and that their self-worth should never rely solely on physical attributes or appearances. Foster an environment that celebrates diversity and individuality, helping them develop a solid and confident sense of self.

It's paramount to be aware that being tall can make children stand out and face unwarranted attention or remarks from peers and even adults. Prepare your children early on for these moments by fostering an open and supportive dialogue with your children, creating a safe space for them to express any concerns or challenges they may face due to their height. Provide emotional support, reassurance, and guidance if they encounter insecurities or difficulties.

Now, there are two things tall children never stop doing when you're raising them. Eat and grow. Feeding your children will be your biggest challenge by far. Consider cooking extra to ensure there is plenty to eat. My father would load our dinner plates up, and somehow, we still found ourselves hungry by bedtime or starving come sunrise. These are the times when food magically disappears. When grocery shopping, consider buying in bulk and choose filling meals containing carbs and protein. Invest in a deep freezer for stock-piling food, and don't hesitate to freeze leftovers. Meals are the most important time of the day for your growing children, and the one place you will stay the most is the kitchen, figuring out which meals to serve next.

These small tips can go a long way in helping your children embrace their height and thrive in every aspect of their lives. Remember, their height is an inherent part of their unique identity, and you should celebrate it as such. Keep nurturing their growth and encouraging them to reach the heights they aspire to. Good luck on your parenting journey!